You matter even if nothing changes.
Anonymous presence. Mutual recognition.
No likes. No followers. Just existence.
About 0 people are existing quietly right now.
"Sonder is the realization that each random passerby is living a life as vivid and complex as your own."
In a world optimized for engagement, we optimize for peace. We believe you don't need to perform to be valid. You don't need an audience to have a voice. Here, you are a background character in the best way possible—free from the spotlight, yet deeply connected to the collective human experience.
The Anti-Social Network
Escape the noise of performance. Embrace the peace of presence.
No Algorithms
We don't optimize for engagement. We don't sell your attention. The feed is chronological, not algorithmic; it's designed for witnessing, not doom-scrolling.
No Influencers
There is no status hierarchy here. No blue checks. No follower counts. Everyone is equal in their anonymity.
No Noise
Silence is our default state. Connect without words, through shared music, ambient presence, and simple signals.
Keep it quiet.
Sonder will never have ads. We will never sell your data. There will be no premium subscriptions or paywalls.
This platform exists to serve you, not to extract value from you.
If Sonder has given you a moment of peace, consider supporting its quiet existence.
Your support helps keep this space ad-free and subscription-free forever.